I love structure and am a creature of habit, I will sit at the same table in ‘my’ cafe and get rather disgruntled if another patron has infringed my usual routine.

We all have our routines, habits and rituals, some of them keep us healthy and some simply keep us.

Change is a break in structure, habits and rituals and perhaps that is why it is so difficult to come to terms with. It is a break in routine and sometimes calls in to question everyone’s moral and ethical stand point.

Sometimes when someone changes the structure of their life it is like a dominos effect, others realise there is another way.

Sometimes when someone changes their structure others close ranks and a mediocre blanket of ‘I’m content’ occurs.

Instead of looking at the black and white, right and wrong what about looking at growth does it have to be in one direction?

Can we really live and let live when someone breaks the structure that has confined our world?