A Community of Smiles


The playground at my children’s school is full of smiling parents who generally say G’day. However this isn’t always the way, rushing around not having the time to give a quick smile and hello can be the death of a community.  Eyes down, eyes on a screen, no eye to eye.  Is smiling at a stranger a dying art?

I try every day to smile at others and generally this is returned. Occasionally though I get a scowl or a blank.  Are people so absorbed they have no room in their life for a smile?  What else in their life are they missing out on?

As society has evolved to hours spent looking at screens instead of each other, is a smile an endangered species?

Are we becoming more isolated in a world that’s population is only ever-increasing?

How can this be?

We have so many different ways of communicating via different apps, let’s not lose the smile.  It is as precious as gold dust and shines brighter than the sun.

Smile, start with your reflection first.

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Nailing Yourself to the Cross

Publication

front cover proof one

My book is to be released into the world imminently for anyone to read and so it is not surprising that I feel slightly vulnerable.   My teacher told me; ‘it’s good because it’s authentic’. I hope people don’t nail me to a cross for what I have written because yep it’s pretty authentic!  When I sent my ‘Meta Data’ sheet off to the publisher this week I don’t mind admitting I felt just a little bit sick with nerves.  That just about to get up and talk to an audience sick, quite appropriate that next week I will be attending a ‘speaking’ course then. I may as well get all this nervousness out-of-the-way.

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Clarity

Writing Gives You Clarity

 Everyone is looking for clarity and it really is at your finger tips!

Writing brings clarity to your thoughts and to your world.  It doesn’t have to be a novel, a chapter or even a thousand words.  Write a journal, your year plan, meal plan or even just your to do list and your mind will be clearer.

So pick up your pen, open your lap top, dig out that journal, find that post-it-note and clarity will be yours. It really is that simple and doesn’t cost a penny!

My book Sharks & Lovers is available to download here:

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Dark Inspiration

Harold Pinter and his Dark World

When I picked up The Home Coming from my book shelf it was actually to show a client how their work would look in print.  It was just the number of words, not the content that was similar. Sometimes hard copy can be inspiring when your work seems only ever to be on the computer screen.

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What’s Right is Not Always Fair

What’s Write is Not Always Fair

frankie banks transcript

Working in the city of London in the late 90’s was certainly right for me. Whilst working at the bank I befriended an Oxbridge grad who would take me for lunch or dinner and sometimes both! He was about 8 years older than me and his IQ was through the roof. This was my first job in London, green is a word that springs to mind. One day after work I got a taxi across London Bridge to his place in Butlers Wharf.

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Getting the First Draft Down

 

Let It Go, Let it Flow – The only way to get the first Draft

Everyone has their own methods of writing a first draft and the great news is there is no wrong way! You can map out your chapters if you have a particular plot in mind or perhaps you are writing a non-fiction and have a list of exactly what you want to explore. Even with non-fiction you still need to let it flow.  Perhaps a particular topic or character just won’t stop talking, that’s ok, let it all out!

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